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About Yesterday…

2019-11-10T14:24:35+00:00

I was just being honest. For all of you who worried about me, thank you, but i think your energy could be better spent somewhere else. It’s not that i don’t appreciate you caring, I just don’t think my last email said anything alarming. It was just regular, real life, human talk.

Speaking of real life, human talk, last night my minions and i were talking about faith, trust & belief. it was a beautiful conversation full of passion, curiosity and vigor. no one person had the best definition of any of these words, but each of us had experienced something that gave us feelings towards them.

faith is the one that really sparked my interest. it seems, for many of us, religion has masked the truth about faith. i think it’s mostly due to the overuse of the word.

the truth about faith is…

you cannot learn it from someone else, YOU must experience it to understand.
[so… honestly, you should probably just stop reading here…]

and faith doesn’t exist out of thin air, it’s built by each individual who has it. faith doesn’t have to be in God, faith can be in life. faith can be found in circumstances. faith can be in everything and in nothing at the same time. faith can be whatever the fuck you want it to be, but it’s not what someone else told you it is.

My faith is in humans, it’s in the earth, and it’s in the space that contains us all. There is a high vibration in the space surrounding the earth and all it’s inhabitants. It’s another word that cannot be defined because you only understand through your own experience of it. This energy that binds us is love.

My faith is in humans, the earth, and the space that contains us because of the mysterious binding force holding us all together that we call love. I have come to believe that love contains contentment, peace, comfort, joy, creativity, infinity, compassion, empathy, understanding and ultimate freedom.

With all the big and little things that could be the end of the world, if my faith is in abundance, nothing can be the end of the world, no one thing can knock me off my feet. My faith becomes my super power.

It seems to me faith is believing that things, as they are right this very second, are perfect, even if i have yet to fully understand how. people too, faith is believing that people, as they are right this very second, are perfect, even if i have yet to fully understand how.

Asking a human to “have faith” is like asking them to wear invisible armor into battle. If you are struck down, was it the armor that let you down, or the lack of faith in yourself and the circumstances.

i don’t know where exactly i’m going but i am going really fucking far and i’m leanin on faith to carry me through the unknown.

my tuesday shout out to you is “keep trekkin. we aint dun yet.”

with love from Kansas, Veazey

About Yesterday…2019-11-10T14:24:35+00:00

I Cussed Up

2019-11-10T14:26:20+00:00

I hadn’t fucked up in a long time. Not really anyway. I forgot what its like… but now, i’ve just fucked up so bring on the memories.

The shame, the self-debilitating talk, the feeling of disappointment not only from others but from myself, and thought after thought of wanting to go back and erase something.

You don’t get to erase anything though. Life is interesting that way. All you can do it paint over what’s already there. Create from where you are.

I’ve noticed this human tendency when we fuck up, we want to start over, but that is so rarely an option. When they can’t start over, people freeze up, sometimes panic, or lose their imagination and not be able to move forward because shit did NOT go as planned, it’s not perfect and it got fucked up.

“Now i don’t want it anymore.” Says the kid with the fucked up project. But if you don’t want to own it, with all the fuck-up-ness and you turn away from it, you’ll stay right there, stuck in that fucked up place forever.

Just like everything else, fuck ups must be accepted. Not only accepted but forgiven and embraced so that love can be put into the new solution. Nothing stays the same, so moving forward, how will you impact the course correction?

Fuck ups lead to beautiful mistakes all the time. But only if the fuck up isn’t abandoned. Where you are, in all your flawed glory, you must become the new canvas, as is. Start creating new on top of the canvas and lay it on thick so it can seep down into the fibers and rather than be a story built on broken pieces, it’s a story about healing broken pieces back together.

A message from your friendly-neighborhood human, Veazey.

p.s. i’m sorry i haven’t written in a while. things have been hard. things have also been magnificent. anyway, here’s my first attempt at getting back into my writing. i’m glad to be here, because i neeeeed this <3 and i’m so glad you’re here, human connection and support is absolutely necessary.

I Cussed Up2019-11-10T14:26:20+00:00

Shift Happened

2019-11-10T14:48:03+00:00

i’m on my first plane on my way home from spending a month in bali. four full weeks in the place between heaven and earth…
shift happened.

i didn’t even have to initiate the change, it just happened. taking myself out of my daily mix has always been revealing and healing for me. this is the third year in a row i have left home for a month.

so many things happened. so many things i needed…

i co-hosted my first retreat with Steph and Dan, confirming those two are my absolute favorite traveling companions on the planet. i also hosted a solo retreat with minimal planning, other than movement twice daily, leaving lots of room for adventure, exploration and freedom to roam. both retreats were a success.

i won’t pretend i can speak for the attendees but as a facilitator and observer, both went according to plan and exceeded all of my expectations. with one successful retreat and one failed retreat before this month, i needed two great successes like these to fuel future attempts…

i spent so much time barefoot and not always in the most comfortable conditions. i hiked up a volcano, burned my feet in hot sand, and ventured into water, onto rocks, into waterfalls, and onto stones. i really needed to feel more with my feet…

i spent time with people 24/7 and only started craving my usual solidarity the last few days of the trip. these people became friends, family and cherished loved ones to me. i don’t really get close to many people in my daily life so this experience stretched me to the limit. i really needed that break from myself and my reclusive nature…

i spent time naked, in front of many people. i let myself be seen more than i ever have before on a physical level. i revelled in the beauty of being human in my unique human body. it was so fucking liberating. a couple of the retreat attendees called me “Eve” on several occasions. i can’t begin to tell you how that made me feel, I’ll write about that later. i needed this… to peel back my worn outer layer of skin covered in old ideas and old fears to reveal fresh new skin for the sun to shine on.…

i spent time just being instead of doing. being in the moment, not completing the writing, reading, or workouts i had in mind to do while i was there. i really needed to let go of the need to do it all…

i spent time letting go of how i needed things to go. i sat in my own discomfort a few times just letting myself be in it. i didn’t force things to go the way i wanted them to go, i just let them go regardless of my own inner discomfort. i really needed to let go of my need to control the way things go…

i spent time eating whatever the cuss i wanted to eat. it was sensual and magical. some tastes were phenomenal and orgasmic. some tastes were excessively pungent and terribly awful as cuss (i had a traumatizing fish sauce experience). it was great while it lasted but now that i’m on my way home, i’m ready to get back to foods that serve my body for the best rather than serving my tastebuds. i really needed that timeout from daily restrictions to appreciate why i practice them…

i really needed Bali this past month and now i’m beyond stoked to return to my amazing life renewed, refreshed and revitalized. i feel like a new person, forever changed, forever in service and forever grateful.

I’ll write ya again soon, Veazey

Shift Happened2019-11-10T14:48:03+00:00
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